The choice should come down to one thing: what will feel the least stressful—and the most enjoyable—during an already busy season of wedding planning.

The good news? Learning your first dance doesn’t have to feel awkward, intimidating, or time-consuming. In fact, with the right approach, it can become one of the most grounding, connecting parts of your entire wedding planning experience.

Choosing your first dance style might seem like a small decision—but it has a huge impact on how you feel leading up to your wedding day.